Most of us fall into people pleasing now and then. But for some people, that's all they do. When it comes to a certain relationship: often a significant other, or a grown child, we may go above and beyond, catering to their every need, trying to make them happy. We want so much for them to finally appreciate us. Besides, it feels good to help. So why is it that the person we want approval from the most treats us with contempt? Shouldn't being kind be the way to earn us the lo